If you’re anything like me, the idea of a big, traditional wedding might feel overwhelming, expensive, or just not your style. That’s exactly why eloping in Nashville is such a good option! It gives you all the meaningful moments without the stress, and honestly, it can feel way more personal.
Here’s a simple, realistic step-by-step guide to help you plan an elopement in Nashville without overcomplicating things.
Step 1: Decide What “Eloping” Means to You
Eloping no longer means something scandalous or running off in secret. These days, it’s more about having an intimate, less traditional celebration with the people who matter most to you! It can be just the two of you, or a small group of your closest people. Before you plan anything, sit down and decide what actually matters to you:
- Do you want it to be private with just the two of you?
- Do you want your parents there?
- Do you still want a first dance or a nice dinner after?
Getting clear on this first will make every other decision easier.
Step 2: Set a Simple Budget
One of the best parts about eloping is saving money, but costs can still add up if you’re not paying attention.
Think about your top priorities. For most people, that’s:
- Photography
- A beautiful location
- A nice meal after
You can keep things very affordable if you skip extras that don't hold value to you! Nashville has plenty of options at different price points, so you don’t need to go overboard to make it feel special.
Step 3: Choose Your Location
Nashville has a mix of natural spots and iconic city views, which makes it perfect for elopements!
Some popular ideas:
- Parks or gardens for a peaceful, romantic setting, like Centennial Park or Cheekwood Estate & Gardens
- Rooftops for a city vibe, such as a downtown hotel rooftop or a private event space with skyline views
- Airbnb rentals for something private and cozy, like a modern loft in East Nashville or a cabin just outside the city
If you want something simple, even a quiet park with good lighting can be perfect! The location matters, but it doesn’t have to be complicated.
Step 4: Get Your Marriage License
This part is easier than people expect!
In Tennessee, you can get your marriage license from any county clerk’s office. Depending on the office, you may need an appointment prior to arriving. Both of you will need to be there with a valid ID. There’s no waiting period, which means you can get it and use it the same day!
Make sure to double check the current fee before you go, just to avoid any stress.
Step 5: Hire the Right Vendors
You don’t need a full vendor team, but you will need an officiant since self solemnizing is not legal in Tennessee.
A few other key vendors can make a huge difference! Consider:
- A photographer to capture everything
- A videographer or content creator to relive the memories
- Hair and makeup
- A local florist for a simple arrangement
Look for vendors who specialize in elopements. They usually understand how to keep things relaxed and flexible, which is exactly what you want!
Step 6: Plan the Timeline
Even though it’s a smaller day, having a loose plan helps everything run smoothly!
Think through:
- When & where you’ll get ready
- When & where the ceremony will happen
- When & where you’ll take photos
- Where you’ll go after
Be sure to account fro travel times between locations! You don’t need a strict schedule, just enough structure so you’re not figuring things out in the moment.
Step 7: Make It Feel Like You
This is where eloping really shines! You can add small, meaningful touches to make it feel so special and intimate.
Some ideas:
- Write personal vows
- Make a playlist
- Have a picnic or a nice dinner after
- Include a small tradition that matters to you
You don’t need a packed itinerary. A few intentional moments go a long way!
Step 8: Celebrate After
Just because you elope doesn’t mean you skip celebrating with everyone else!
You could:
- Host a casual party later, like renting out a private room at a local spot such as Pinewood Social or having a backyard-style gathering at an Airbnb. (Just make sure the Airbnb hosts are aware and okay with it!)
- Go out to dinner with friends at places like The Optimist for seafood or Rolf and Daughters for something a little more elevated but still relaxed.
- Plan a fun experience instead of a formal reception, like catching live music and dancing on Broadway, booking a private group activity like bowling or mini golf, or going for a hike at places like Radnor Lake or Percy Warner Park.
This takes the pressure off the day itself while still letting you include the people you love!
Final Thoughts
Eloping in Nashville is really about keeping what matters and letting go of everything that doesn’t. You can still have a beautiful, emotional, and memorable day without the stress and price tag of a big wedding.
At the end of the day, you’re married, and that’s the whole point!!
If you focus on that, you really can’t go wrong!
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